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Sugar Magazine Love split: If you’re a brokenhearted babe, let Nick pick you up! Take time out!If a relationship wasn’t working, it’s a positive thing to find yourself single, whether it was you who made the break or not. It’s happened to me a few times and I always find the best way to a broken heart is to sever all ties with that person-at least while you get used to the split-and let time heal your wounds. Hopefully you can be friends in the future but first, take some time to get used to being on your own. Be an independent woman! For me, being single gives me the opportunity to make my own decisions about what I want to do. It also means I have more time to do the things I care about. I’m always writing music and playing my guitar, so it’s a positive thing for me to have that time to myself to be creative. It’s definitely much more important to me than staying in a relationship that’s going nowhere and that doesn’t give you the opportunity to grow. And boys find independent girls so much sexier to the boys than one who can’t stand being alone! Mate magic! Do things to boost your ego and your confidence, and that get you to feel more positive about yourself. Don’t start looking for a new boyfriend straightaway-you need some time to get used to your own company. And you might get into a relationship with the wrong person if you start seeing a new lad before you’re over the last one. Babe boost! If your relationship’s just ended, don’t mope around feeling sorry for yourself! Instead, spend some quality time with your favourite friends. Organise a fun girl’s night out and remind yourself that there’s more to life than your ex! Mate split Having mate ‘mares? Nick’ll sort it sharpish! Give ‘em space! My friends are very mellow so although we have to spend lots of time apart, its like nothing’s changed when we finally get together. It’s important to allow your friends space to go away and do their own thing, without getting jealous or upset. Be supportive! If one of the Backstreet Boys decided it was time for them to leave the band I’d respect that, rather then get hurt or angry. When Brian got married and we stopped hanging out so much, I didn’t take it personally. Friendship takes patience, love and respect, and you have to trust people who’ve been there for you in the past. Bag a new bezzie! If you really feel like a friend’s letting you down, it might be time to move on. You should join a club, take up a new hobby or take time to get to know other people at school. Family affairs! I’m still close with my family, even though I left home early to join the band. No matter what, your family is always there for you! Thanks to Kayla. |